Good Vibes Holistic Therapies
Inner Child Healing & Integration
Mother Mary was a woman of strength and character who she has continued to inspire, comfort, support and guide all those who call upon her regardless of faith or beliefs. She is the epitome of the highs and lows, the celebrations and tribulations of motherhood and of the unique relationship between mother and child.
Being a mother is one of the most wonderful, enlightening and rewarding blessings that a woman can experience. However, for some it can also be exhausting, frustrating and traumatic where the unborn child is unexpected or unwelcome, or where personal or societal circumstances make it near impossible to provide a safe and loving home. Some women even with the best of intentions are not cut out for motherhood and struggle to form a bond with their child and to care for them, and unfortunately no child is born with an instruction manual.
Even as an adult, no matter our personal relationship with our own human mother and our experiences of childhood, we can call on Mother Mary to help us to heal our inner child of all pain suffering and traumatic experiences. She will help us to reintegrate this precious aspect in a positive and proactive way so that it will continue to enrich our life. This will help to return light, fun and joy to our lives, and the ability to see and greet the world once again with the open eyes, mind and heart of a child, but tempered by the maturity of our adult self.
We no longer need to be defined, restricted or controlled by our upbringing. By connecting to and working with Mary we form a permanent connection to her as the source of unconditional motherhood love - the Divine Mother to us all. During childhood many found it difficult or were unable to share their thoughts, hopes and dreams, to be comforted of their fears and loved unconditionally no matter what they had done, or even to be accepted for who they are by their human mother. This caused those who were ignored to go inwards and to push all their pain deep down inside of them where they didn’t have to think about it anymore.
Some soul’s struggle with the concept of human childhood, feeling confined and restricted by their limited abilities and lash out at those closest to them. Sometimes this destructive path continues into teenage years and beyond as they are unable to repair the rift and damage between them and their mother. For those who experienced truly traumatic childhood experiences this can cause the Inner Child Aspect of their being to become damaged. This damage reverberates throughout the rest of their lives, never managing to be comforted, accepted or healed.
In many cases acknowledging your inner child, nurturing this aspect of you with the Divine Mother’s Love may be all that is needed to bring about harmony and balance to your well being. Although we cannot change our past, we can reframe it through a more loving and forgiving lens of perception. We can draw strength and comfort from Mother Mary knowing that she is always with us. For those who have lost their human mother either through desertion or death, no matter at what age, Mary, will lovingly step in to fulfil that role.
Signs that your Inner Child may be wounded
These will be shown in the following ways:
- Low self-esteem
- Poor body-image
- Mood and emotional imbalances
- Problems with boundaries being too rigid or too weak
- Problems with eating
- Psycho-sexual difficulties
- Being ‘false’ and wearing ‘masks’
- Identity problems
- Being a rebel/ a hoarder/ a bully/ a perennial victim or a super-achiever
- Intimacy problems
- Commitment problems
- A general lack of trust in yourself and others
- Criminal behavior
- Excessive lying
- Being ‘overly-responsible’ for others
- Being fiercely competitive and a poor loser
- Dependencies and addictions
- A lack of genuine friends
- Obsessive and needy behavior
- Fear of authority figures
- Being manipulative, passive, or aggressive
An Inner Child Healing & Integration session aims to repair and heal the wounds caused by parents, caregivers and others, and to welcome and integrate your hurt fragmented self. Once this has taken place you will feel lighter, more complete as a person and find it easier to recapture the sense of wonder you once had a child but now viewed through the lens of your wise mature self.
Before your session I will ask you to prepare two short affirmations to read before your session begins, and once it has ended. When we combine energetic work with physical ritual it makes the result all the more effective and puts you back in control, rather than relying purely on someone else doing all the work for you. This sends a powerful signal to your subconscious mind that you are ready to take charge and move forward with your life again.
All I need from you is:
- Your full name
- A photograph of you is helpful too but not essential.
- Any information you feel is relevant for this session, including at what age you feel your Inner Child is in need of healing
- Details of the person (your mother/father/caregiver etc) who hurt you and if they are still living or have passed over
- How this relationship is affecting you right now
* Please note I only work on one age related Inner Child relationship at a time, if you wish to work on additional relationships it will require separate sessions.
Your session will last for 1 hour, comprising of a healing flush session to rebalance and strengthen your auric field and prepare you as a sacred vessel for your Inner Child to come into. Healing and forgiveness will also be offered to the other person involved. This will gently and naturally filter through to them physically if and when they are ready to accept it. Remember that forgiveness we is important so that you can be well, whole and happy. This isn’t about ‘letting someone off the hook’ for what they did or didn’t do, or belittling their treatment towards you. When we let go, we relinquish any power they have over us so that we can step into the light and embrace our future.
This session comes with full feedback: this will be sent by email as a Word Document so we both have a permanent record of what has happened to refer back to if needed. This will also include after care and optional ‘home work’ with suggestions for how to continue the healing, nurturing process with your Inner Child.
During your session I will enter into a deep trance shamanic meditation and journey into the astral realms so I will not be able to communicate with you vocally. For this reason I do not use the phone or Skype as it would keep pulling me back into this world and weakening my connection to all of our higher self aspects.
Each session costs £40
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